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Has Your Life Been Affected by Someone Else\u2019s Drinking?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n

The following questions are designed to help you decide whether you could benefit from Al-Anon.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

1. Do you worry about how much someone drinks?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

2. Do you have money problems because of someone else\u2019s drinking?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

3. Do you tell lies to cover up for someone else\u2019s drinking?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

4. Do you feel that if the drinker cared about you, he or she would stop drinking to please you?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

5. Do you blame the drinker\u2019s behavior on his or her companions?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

6. Are plans frequently upset or canceled or meals delayed because of the drinker?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

7. Do you make threats, such as, \u201cIf you don\u2019t stop drinking, I\u2019ll leave you\u201d?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

8. Do you secretly try to smell the drinker\u2019s breath?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

9. Are you afraid to upset someone for fear it will set off a drinking bout?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

10. Have you been hurt or embarrassed by a drinker\u2019s behavior?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

11. Are holidays and gatherings spoiled because of drinking?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

12. Have you considered calling the police for help in fear of abuse?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

13. Do you search for hidden alcohol?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

14. Do you ever ride in a car with a driver who has been drinking?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

15. Have you refused social invitations out of fear or anxiety?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

16. Do you feel like a failure because you can\u2019t control the drinking?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

17. Do you think that if the drinker stopped drinking, your other problems would be solved?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

18. Do you ever threaten to hurt yourself to scare the drinker?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

19. Do you feel angry, confused, or depressed most of the time?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

20. Do you feel there is no one who understands your problems?<\/p>\n\n\n\n

If you have answered \u201cYes\u201d to any of these questions Al-Anon may be able to help. Click here to learn more about Al-Anon<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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Has Your Life Been Affected by Someone Else\u2019s Drinking? The following questions are designed to help you decide whether you could benefit from Al-Anon. 1. Do you worry about how much someone drinks? 2. Do you have money problems because of someone else\u2019s drinking? 3. 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